Perfection doesn’t exist. It’s an illusion. Just do and be your best.
How has trying to be perfect impeded your growth or held you back?
I’ve struggled through this need to be perfectÂ throughoutÂ my life, feeling that I had to change myself or be something else because I sought approval from other people. It’s affected everything from my career choices (I used to be a former banker), to relationships, to my body image.
Trying to be “perfect”, essentially something I’m not and can never live up to, has been a huge form of pain. Fitting a mold others’ put on me has caused me to go into professions and industries that were not mission-driven. Living up to others’ expectations, and also expecting those expectations on others has hurt countless relationships, personally and professionally. Even the need to be perfect caused a delusional tug-of-war in my mind that created guilt in the form of a distorted negativeÂ body image and even led to an eating disorder when I was a teenager.Â
Perfectionism–ANDÂ lack of being perfect–has been a convenient form of self-sabotage. Apart from everything else I’ve mentioned, it’s kept me small, blocking the creative flowÂ and preventing me from stepping up into the highest and fullest expression of myself.Â
Again, perfection is an illusion. I choose now to be perfectly imperfect and rather strive to do and be my best, which I do every day.Â
How about you? How have you tried to be perfect and how has it affected your creativity and authenticity? What helps you move past this?
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